What I learned at MIT and Harvard

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Three years ago, I made the decision to leave a well-paying job at Bank of America Merrill Lynch to come back to graduate school. I remember clearly when I stepped into the office of my Managing Director (who I remain close friends with) and shared with him my decision, he took out a calculator and told me, “Desmond, this is how much money you will give up if you leave.” I smiled back at him and said “I know, but I still need to go.”

Coming from a humble family, it was not an easy decision to give up a lucrative career path and come back to school. However, three years on, I can confidently say that I will do it again in a heartbeat.

My past three years in Cambridge, Massachusetts have been life-changing. In this post, I hope to share more on some of the activities, organizations, and groups I was part of, and the key learnings I took from my time at MIT and Harvard.

1) The people I met stood out to me the most

If you ask me what stood out the most for me, I would say it is the people. I have had the incredible opportunity of learning from top professors including Larry Summers, Cass Sunstein, Neil Gershenfeld, in topics ranging from computer science to the financial crisis.

I had sat in seminars and talks by Barack Obama, Mark Zuckerberg, Eric Schmidt, Shinzo Abe, Peter Thiel, Chelsea Clinton, Marc Andreessen, Lloyd Blankfein, Felipe Calderon, Kevin Rudd, Steven Spielberg, as they spoke about technology, film-making, and politics. But I reckon what I value most, and what I miss most, were the people I studied with.

The first person I met at school was Sean, who is blind and told me the story of how he came to Harvard to help the handicapped find their place in the world. In a class at HBS, I met Michael who sold his Y-combinator backed start-up to Google before coming back to school.

At the MIT fraternity I live in, I mentored Ben, who came to MIT when he was 15 to study physics, and just got accepted into all ten PhD programs he applied for (he chose Stanford). My best friend in school, Roberto, is running for office in Venezuela to improve the well-being of his fellow countrymen, and we used to talk about politics over our daily gym sessions at the Malkin Athletic Centre.

2) I learned a wide range of topics in class from Computer Science, Korean, to Product Design

My favorite class was “How to make almost anything” at MIT Media Lab, in which I created an automated basketball machine, 3D scanned myself, and created my own self-assembled stool (which I still use today). I liked the class so much I went on to conduct research at MIT Media Lab around the topic of computer vision,face recognition, product design and created the world’s first automatic milk scanner. I also took on computer science classes, including CS 50, Python, Java, and Fundamentals of Web Programming.

At HBS, I learned about The Online Economy from Professor Ben Edelman, and studied Product Design under Srikant Datar. At HKS, I learned about public policy and law under Larry Summers, improved my communication skills and public speaking, and studied the fundamentals of the American political constitution.

In addition, I took Korean classes daily for two whole years at 8.30am (by which I would have finished my 1 hour gym session with Roberto). At the MIT Sloan School, I took Innovation Teams and worked in cross-disciplinary teams across engineering, business, and public policy.

It was a slight stretch to fit 6 to 7 classes each semester into my weekly schedule, but focusing on learning rather than grades made all the difference for me, and allowed me to pursue interesting and enriching classes.

3) Be part of interesting organizations, clubs, and conferences

I was fortunate to live at and be part of Epsilon Theta, an MIT fraternity (or co-living group) in which I mentored and advised MIT undergraduates who majored in computer science, and physics, and math. Staying with them taught me about the importance of mentorship, as did my role as a graduate student advisor at Adams House, one of the oldest residential house at Harvard.

In addition, I was also a mentor and board of advisor at Leadership Institute at Harvard College. Speaking with my students, I learned about how they became valedictorian of their high school, represented USA in figure-skating to being the first Burmese student to study at Harvard in the past ten years.

4) Figure out what you want to do with your one wild and precious life

5) Last but not least, keeping fit and healthy is important