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Jon Westenberg Ā· Ā· 6 min read

10 incredible quotes to guide your life

Photo credit: Annie Spratt

Photo credit: Annie Spratt

I’m a collector of quotes. I love it when I can find a phrase, a sentence, a particular grouping of words that can change my perspective, open my fucking eyes, and spread a little light for me.

I read, constantly. It’s the most important thing you can ever do with your time, because it’s an opportunity to tap into the collected knowledge of the entirety of human historyā€Šā€”ā€Šwhile sitting on the couch.

These are 10 quotes that I’ve picked up along the way. They have a lot of meaning to me, personally. And I think you can learn something from them. Something fucking good, lasting and true.

Photo credit: Annie Spratt

1. You have to participate.

ā€œThere are no passengers on spaceship earth. We are all crew.ā€
― Marshall Mcluhan

There’s no free rides. When you’re living on this planet, you can’t just sit down and coast, expecting the rest of humanity to keep its eye on the ball for you. A life spent as a passenger, rather than someone contributing to making the world function, is a life wasted.

I know too many people who don’t want to participate. They think that life is an audience sport, something to be observed and watched from a distance. They’re not the only ones who miss out by not getting involvedā€Šā€”ā€Šsome of them are incredibly talented, and I know we’re a little poorer for their lack of interest.

2. Cry. But for the right reasons.

ā€œThere are three things we cry for in life: things that are lost, things that are found, and things that are magnificent.ā€
― Douglas Coupland

This is what it means to be human. To feel overcome with emotion when we have to say goodbye, and when we experience discovery, and when we look out at the world and are suddenly struck by how incredible it is. When we cry for these things, we are truly fucking alive.

And you can’t be too proud to cry. You can’t believe that crying is a sign of weakness, that boys don’t cry, any of that machismo 19th century bullshit. Crying is good. Crying is healthy. Cry for the right reasons.

3. Don’t try to leave yourself behind.

4. Take care of each other.

5. Dreams are good. But Living is just as important.

6. Stop being ashamed of your work.

7. Let yourself believe.

8. Don’t overthink it.

9. Let the days come and go.

10. Think about the consequences.

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Jon Westenberg

I am an entrepreneur, writer, commentator & creative. I direct Technology and Strategy at Charltons Consulting, and I am the principle of digital agency Creatomic. I was a founder and digital lead of Tuteable [ANZ Innovyz 2013]. I've worked in design, writing and strategy for a range of clients, including startups, agencies and corporates. I graduated from Sydney's University of Technology with a Masters in Digital Media & Communications. My first book, Build Cool Shit: Essays on Founding is due in 2016. My first novel is in progress. I live with my partner in Sydney, Australia & I have a super high score in Wolfenstein 3D.