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Ali Mese · · 8 min read

How quitting my corporate job for my startup dream f*cked up my life

Finally the SMS arrived:

“Tomorrow morning 5am, flight number AZ610 from Rome to NewYork.”

An SMS hitting my BlackBerry on Sunday evenings used to decide my destination and client for the coming week.

I was working for one of the top three global strategy consulting firms.

A life packed in a suitcase. A consulting life where you miss out on everything and everyone in life, except Excel spreadsheets. A fancy business life we are taught to be ideal slaves of, at top business schools whose degrees we are proud to hold.

After few hours of sleep, the private driver was taking me to the Rome Fuimicino airport so I could take my fancy business-class flight to NYC. Upon arrival, I was checking in to a fancy five-star hotel and heading to my client’s office afterwards.

The salary? It was fancy, too. The company was proud to be among the top payers of the industry.

Parents

There was something wrong with this consulting life, though. I couldn’t stand this fancy bullshit any longer and one day I called my parents:

Dad, mom, I just quit my job. I want to start my own startup.

My mom almost had a heart attack. It wasn’t the first thing a perfectionist mother wanted to hear after encouraging me to graduate from the world’s top business schools with top grades.

I tried to ease her distress. No chance.

Girlfriend, friends, and social circle

Cash, cash, cash.

Today.

1. Are you ready for the social pressure?

2. Are you single or do you have an extremely supportive partner?

3. Do you have enough cash to last at least a year?

4. Are you ready to sleep only few hours a day?

5. How do you define success?

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Ali Mese

Ali Mese helps some of the world’s top startups grow at Growth Supply. He is the instructor of “0 to 1M”, an online growth marketing course with over 1,140 students. He shares his learnings on his blog and also on Medium. He is the owner of The Startup and maker of Freebie Supply.