6 life lessons from an exhausted entrepreneur

It’s been four years since I ever so proudly quit my day job in public relations, posting a photo on Facebook of my first day of freedom, sipping on a latte at a local cafe with laptop in tow, and posting “My new office!” for all to envy.

But then, there I was three years later—sitting on the edge of my bed, quietly sobbing, head in hands, having barely been paid a salary since leaving my day job, and wondering what the hell was wrong with me that I couldn’t seem to make this self-employment thing work.

You see, the sexy “build a freedom business and break even in five years” line that many in the online world have been selling has been omitting some fairly large truths. Truths that I intend on shining a light on. Not the truth, but my truth and experience.

And as your fellow entrepreneur, I feel a sense of duty to protect you and your passions, and to share my own personal life lessons. My intention is to make sure you know that, despite what they tell, market, and sell you, and despite what you might even tell yourself, you are already doing everything possible to make this thing work.

There is no “missing key” or business building secret you aren’t in on.

I know who you are, courageous entrepreneur.

I see how hard you work.

I see how persistent you are.

I see your endless determination.

I know you have grit, hope, and positivity.

I know you are already doing scary things outside of your comfort zone.

I know you are showing up.

I know you are investing in yourself—your personal growth—and learning new skills.