A letter to my younger self: What’s the worst that could happen?

This letter is a part of Accelerate Action, Tech in Asia’s 2025 International Women’s Day campaign, which ties in with our larger initiative to support women in tech.

Dear younger me,

When you move to the US as a student, you’ll want to do everything: work at a tech company, understand international development, and maybe even pursue a Ph.D. You’ll be restless, excited, and overwhelmed by the endless possibilities. You’ll spend sleepless nights weighing options, chasing dreams, and wondering what you’re leaving behind.

You’ll meet some amazing people on this adventure / Photo credit: Piruze Sabuncu

When you look back years later, maybe you’ll ask yourself if you truly made those decisions or if life simply unfolded the way it was meant to. But rest assured that two beliefs will keep you grounded: “I’m here to learn. I’ll figure out what I want to do when I grow up.” And of course, “What’s the worst that can happen?”

As you navigate life and make those choices, let your curiosity guide you.

Curiosity allows you to approach people with no agenda, leading to genuine insights and unexpected possibilities. When you get opportunities, put in your best effort: Hard work builds trust, and the best people will want to work with you. You may feel hesitant or uncertain, but whenever you do, just ask, “What’s the worst that can happen?” That will give you the courage to trust yourself, say yes, and take the leap.

If you resist the pull of curiosity, then you might miss the chance to work at the governor’s office. Sure, you’ll have to juggle this with your school work, but you’ll also get front-row seats to the fascinating world of local politics.

You might also debate answering the call of nonprofit work in emerging markets because you’re worried about the paycheck. Sure, the pay isn’t spectacular, but if your circumstances allow, think of what else you could gain, like a deep knowledge of high-level stakeholder management and direct experience of what it takes to bring long-term projects to life.

The possibilities are endless / Photo credit: Square Peg

Twenty years later, you’ll see how those seemingly unconventional choices will shape not just your career, but also who you are and your understanding of what’s possible.

When you’re faced with a decision, don’t ignore what truly excites you. Then ask yourself, “What’s the worst that could happen?’ The answer will often surprise you, and the rewards will almost always outweigh any worst-case scenario.

Stay curious,
Your older self